
Medieval Japan reached its collateral's highest point with the flowering
of the Heian period. During this period, Lady
Murasaki Shikibu ( image on the left ),
a lady-in-waiting to the empress, wrote the classic love story called,
"The Tale of Genji". This literaturary work describes the elegant and refined
society of the Heian period. Genteel's love affairs are the dominant
theme in "Tale of Genji," which focused on Genji's romances. The
story of Genji Monoatari is basically about Prince Genji, the young handsome
son of an emperor. The Prince possessed all the virtues including
beauty, grace, talent, and sensitivity.
In order to understand Genji's enchantment and femininely character, we can comprehend through the background of Lady Murasaki Shikibu, and Genji's relationships with his women. Before talking about Genji, some people might wonder what influenced Lady Murasaki Shikibu to create "KoGenji," and what the significance of Genji to Lady Murasaki Shikibu is. The meaning of "Ko" in front of Genji was usually used in ancient Japanese names, to mean pretty and charming. To Lady Murasaki, exactly who is Genji? According to conjecture, Lady Murasaki might be born after C. E. 937. During that period her father was a famous poet and scholar. Furthermore, if we go back toward the history of her ancestors, we could discover that among her ancestors, many were sufficient to be called a men of letters, or poets. Therefore it is clear to us that Lady Murasaki Shikibu had a strong literary influence from her family. Before Lady Murasaki Shikibu became sensible with the world, her mother passed away. So during Lady Murasaki Shikibu's youth, her father paid special attention to educate Lady Murasaki Shikibu and her brother. In the diary of Shikibu, Lady Murasaki Shikibu mentioned that whenever her father tried to teach her brother, her brother took much more effort to memorize. On the other hand, Lady Murasaki Shikibu could memorize things better than her brother, so her father always felt that Lady Murasaki Shikibu should be a boy. Lady Murasaki Shikibu was married to her 46-year-old husband when she was 29 years old. At that time, her husband already had many wives. Such middle-aged man does not seem to attract women. At first, Lady Murasaki did not agree to this marriage. However, she also realized that she was getting old. In addition, it was not easy to find someone suitable for her at her age in that time period. Therefore, she had to put up with it. In the year 1005, she received a job at "Ijijyo Tenon." With great interest in literature, Lady Murasaki Shikibu had much hope for an ideal husband, but in reality her husband was old. In addition, he did not have a special talent, which was very different from her ideal husband. Therefore, Genji was probably the ideal man for Lady Murasaki Shikibu during that time period.
Now, I would like to talk about Genji's attractive character and femininity which was reflected in "Genji no Monogatari." During Genji's period, which is about 8-12th century. During that period, it was normal for man to have many wives. It was also very clear in Genji's case which he had relationships with many different women. Many of Genji's women had good families and were also well-educated. In terms of age, they ranged from youthful to mature women. So what would be the main reason Genji made so many different women fall in love with him? Certainly, Genji's noble lineage, pretty and charming looks were considered special, but he also possessed other appealing character traits
First of all, Genji was smart and knows how to express his feelings.
For example, in one of the stories of "Genji no Monoatari" called "Haha
Kigi," a woman named "Utsu Semi" (
image on the right ) never knew she would become unfaithful
to her husband. Since Genji was able to quickly grasp the delicate mind
of Utsu Semi's innermost heart, finally, Utsu Semi accepted Genji.
Secondly, Genji also took good care of the woman whom he had a relationships
with. Even if Genji did not truely love the woman, he would try his best
to take care of the her. Such example is in Genji's relationship with a
woman named "Suetsumuhana." For Genji, he unexpectedly slept with
Suetsumuhana in one dark night. After he realized he didn't like
the way Suetsumuhana looked, he still supported her and took good care
of her. As for Suetsumuhana, she didn't grumble, but she felt grateful
to Genji. Thirdly, Genji is a character of true sentiments.
For example, Genji's lover "Yugao" was killed by the evil spirit of Lady
Rokujyo, and passed away at midnight. After Genji returned home he
was consoled by his company. However, later Genji thought Yugao's
spirit would return and not see him. Genji thought Yugao must have
been lonely and afraid. Therefore, Genji did not care if it was late
at night. He rushed back to Yugao's graveyard and earnestly prayed
for good fortune and recited a Buddhist sutra. In reality, Genji
was considered a typical person of talent in letters and unconventional
in lifestyle. For example, Genji is proficient in painting, music,
writing poems for his lovers, and dancing. Even though Genji was
raised in the center of politics, Genji still kept his unique personality,
which was a contrast to the politics. Furthermore, the result of
Genji's literarcy pursuits naturally emitted a strong sense of artistic
quality.
To further understand his
character and femininity we can look at Genji's relationship with Fujitsubo
and Yugao. Fujitsubo (
image on the left ) was Genji's stepmother. She looked
very similar to Genji's departed mother Kiritsubonokoi, and Genji's father
was relieved from melancholy. Once Genji heard that Fujitsubo looked
similar to his mother, he gradually expressed his love towards her.
For Fujitsubo, she also felt in love with Genji. In terms of their age,
Fujitsubo is only five years older than Genji. Their relationship
developed from mother and son to lovers. It seemed natural to me.
When Genji became 12 years old, there was a ceremony for him as he became
an adult. Such that Genji had an arrange marriage with "Aoi no Jyo."
Once Genji got married and became an adult, he could not visit Fujitsubo
as before. For Genji, Fujitsubo is his father's favorite concubine,
so Genji could only hide his true feeling inside his heart. In "Genji
no Monoatari," Lady Murasaki Shikibu did not write in detail about Fujitsubo.
Lady Murasaki Shikibu passed her idea on Genji's love for Fujitubo and
built her ideal type of husband through Genji's character.
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| Genji when he was a child | Genji when he became an adult |
Genji
and Fujitsubo (
image on the right ) later had a son, and the son looked just
like Genji. Fujitsubo tried not to have affair with Genji.
Therefore, she decided to be a Buddhist nun. It was a big blow
to Genji. This made Genji feel very depressed. Fujitsubo was
a merciful woman and was considered an ideal queen. In addition,
she received the greatest respect among people. When Genji became
32, Fujitsubo passed away at age 37. After Genji heard about
Fujitsubo's death, he felt grief but couldn't express his true feelings
in front of others. Instead, he always hid in some place to cry alone
and read Buddhist sutra for Fujitsubo.
Another important woman of Genji's relationships is Yugao. Genji met Yugao by chance when he was 17 years old. At the same time, Genji was also seeing lady Rokujo no Miyasudokoro. One day Genji was on his way to visit lady Rokujyo no Miyasudokoro. He stopped by to paid a visit to his "menoto," her old nurse, Koremitsu's mother. While Genji was waiting, he looked up and down. Beside the nurse's house, was as new fence of plaited cypress. The four or five narrow shutters above had been raised and new blinds, white and clean, hung in the apertures. Genji caught outlines of a pretty forehead beyond. Afterwards, Genji had Koremitsu find out the lady's identity. They found out that this lady's name was Yugao and she moved to the area around May. It made Genji feel even more curious when he heard Yugao has some relationship with To no Chujo. Yugao was shy and withdrawn. Therefore, Genji was soon captured by Yugao's gentle personality. Later Genji and Yugao became lovers without really knowing each other. However, about the same time, Genji had another lover named Rokujo no Miyasudokoro. She was a very beautiful and smart woman. In addition, she is much older than Genji. At the same time, Lady Rokujo no Miyasudokoro had lots of pride in herself, so she could not accept Genji's new lover, Yugao, who was from a lower class. Since Lady Rokuo no Miyasudokoro had pride, it was difficult to show her feelings at all. Lady Rokujo no Miyasudokoro thought and worried too much. As a result, her evil spirit killed Yugao. ( image on the left ) After Genji returned, Genji felt depressed and wanted to die. Genji was sick for twenty days. From this story, we can see Genji was tender-hearted, just like a woman.
Finally, from Lady Murasaki
and Genji's relationships with these two women, we can clearly see
The unique faminine characteristic of Genji not only had beautiful appearance
as it appeared in the comics or cartoons,but he also possess a gentle
heart like a woman. This is especially clear through Genji's compassion
toward the death of Yugao and Fujitsubo.
